When there is more frustration, broken communication, and fights in your relationship — it is not a good sign. You are probably reading this article because it is creating havoc on your mental health. While it may just be a phase, it can also be a red flag. Do not beat yourself up for having doubts about your relationship in such cases, because it is completely normal to feel this way. Being more introspective is the best way to get to an appropriate conclusion.
We are sure that you must have thought about leaving your partner several times. But, you probably couldn’t gather the courage to do so. Certain mistakes are unforgivable, and it is important to know when to walk away from a relationship. It may feel like the hardest thing to do at the moment — but trust us, after a point you will realise that it was for the best. Let’s take a look at the red flags that should not be avoided in a relationship.
Infidelity:
If you feel like your partner is drifting away from you, then it may be because of external focus. It crushes your soul when your partner cheats on you. You try to make sense of their actions and blame yourself for them. It lowers your self-esteem because thoughts like ‘maybe I am not good enough’ consistently swarm in your mind. While it is not always simple to end a relationship, leaving a cheating partner should be your first instinct.
Constant criticism:
Relationships are all about supporting each other at every point in time. But if your partner starts criticizing your every action, then it’s high time that you reconsider dating them. There is no lie in the fact that constructive feedback adds value to a relationship, but negative criticism makes the bond toxic. Everyone wants to have someone who they can look up to during the low phases of their life. But if that person doesn’t support or encourage you, then there is no point in saving the relationship.
Ignoring needs
Healthy communication is the best way to share your concerns or problems with your partner. Ignoring each other’s needs and always prioritising yourself over your partner, will sooner or later weaken the bond. If your relationship is lacking support for each other, then you should voice your concern. But if the problem persists, then you should end the relationship for the sake of your mental health.
Non-stop fights
Relationships do involve fights. If you love someone, then it is common to have arguments or fights with that person. But fighting regularly, that too over silly matters and on the same topic over and over again, is something that cannot be ignored. If you notice these small problems keep cropping up and you are not able to do anything about them, then it is high time you realise the toxicity in the relationship and move away from it.
Financial (in)security
If your partner has stopped discussing finances with you or you are the only one who is spending money, then this is something that should not be neglected. Financial security is what everyone requires and avoiding it can affect your relationship. If despite discussions, you cannot come to a solution, then breaking up is the only solution.
