Love is one of the most special feelings in a human being’s life. God has gifted every human being with the ability to feel different types of emotions, and love is among the most cherished feelings. Every human being experiences love at least once in their lives. But sometimes, due to bitter experiences in one’s life, people tend to shut themselves off from the feeling of love. Some people feel that they are not worthy enough to receive love. These feelings of aversion towards love can hold a strong place in our subconscious and can stop us from receiving or recognising the right love. So, let’s take a deeper look at these beliefs which might prevent one from finding love or building a healthy relationship.
Preconceived notions: If someone has preconceived notions about their partners, they will always be criticising them; they will never be able to express their love in a healthy way. If this issue is not resolved, then it can hamper the relationship.
Resentment towards love: If someone is dealing with unresolved issues from their past relationships, then they may not be able to build a good relationship again. This will be permanently imprinted in the subconscious mind and will lead to resentment towards love.
Lack of trust: If some has developed feelings like distrust or doubt, then they will not be able to open up and establish another romantic relationship. Apart from that, they will not be able to create intimacy in a romantic relationship, if distrust is constantly on their mind. Doubts and distrust can stop a person from developing feelings towards them.
Lack of Self-Care: If someone doesn’t have the feeling of self-love or they criticise themselves a lot, then it becomes extremely difficult for them to receive love as well. This is because a person who lacks self love will not be able to accept love from another person. They will always have doubts about them, just as they doubt themselves.
Unrealistic Expectations: If someone has unrealistic expectations or standards, then this will become a set pattern in their subconscious mind, and they will not be able to receive love.
