If you are one of those guys who dread asking a girl out for a date, here’s all to make it absurdly simple.
For some, to ask a girl out equals winning a Congressional token of honour for spilling the guts out. They say, all you have to do is ask, but it still can be a really frightening experience for those of us who are shy or nervous when exposed to such social environment. Even the best of us fail to get the desired girl to say ‘yes’, don’t we? The key is to strike the rod when it’s hot.
Prepare
Before you can put the proposal in front of her, you must prepare to do so, and here is exactly how:
Know Her
You cannot directly hop on your shoes and ask a woman whom you’ve come across only yesterday to an evening date. First, you will have to charm her and be the one she would like to go out with and to be able to do that, you have to make sure that you know her well enough. So, get started; figure out what it is that interests her, what kind of people she is interested in, what it is that she wishes to do in the future, etc.
Find out if She’s Interested
To get to impress a girl, you have to first know her and to go on a date with her, you have to find out if she’s interested in you. Does she make eye contacts with you often when you are in a hall pulled apart by a crowd of people? Does she smile at you when she is with her friends? It is wise for a man to keep his feelings to himself and not make it so obvious at least until he is sure the girl wants things to wheel ahead.
Make her Think about you before She Sleeps
If you are hopeful of building intimacy, talking to her at night is the best time. Start texting her from time to time in the evenings, and gradually start calling her at night, but occasionally. Start talking to her about things that interest her and she would with time warm up to you and look forward to having conversations with you every night.
Win her Heart
- A girl who is really interested in you will never say no to whatever you ask her. According to Raymond Norma, author of Get the Girl you Want!: The Ultimate Guide, you can do the following to win her over and make her affirm the date you have been wanting to go to together.
- “Smile: girls are extreme smile-addicts. A couple well-placed smiles, a good attitude, some non-sexual jokes here and there and you can win a girl’s heart easier than a handsome tall guy.”
- Maintain an appropriate posture. “Don’t hunch! Look like you’re enjoying yourself no matter what you are doing! Stand straight and sit up, no slouching! It shows that you are strong, well trained. And it will make you taller, feel more like a man, which is exactly what a woman wants”.
- “Be interesting! If you have a passion for something, flaunt it! Here’s one universal rule: women find passionate men very attractive. If you are passionate about anything, there’s a damn good chance you’ll inject some emotional force into other aspects of your life. It doesn’t have to be anything sexual or even remotely feminine in nature; you could be a gear-head, or maybe your passion is something like dog walking. Don’t talk her ear off; just get a little animated, and get that sparkle in your eye. She’ll notice, and she’ll want to learn more.”
Do not Hurry
You are sure you like her but what she feels for you is not something you can assume and conclude. If you feel that all your efforts are likely to slip because she does not reciprocate, do not be at your wit’s end just yet. When a guy who likes a girl and wants to ask her out on a date feels that he has fewer chances of getting what he wants, he ends up professing his love for the girl without realising that the girl may not as well be interested at all. Therefore, approach her only when she shows signs that she likes you.
Asking your prospective girlfriend on a date may be one of the most difficult tests you are up against. The good news is that you can get through it very easily. With a “yes” from her, we mean.
