Love is a feeling that slowly grows in the heart! But when things get worse (between two people), this feeling gets out of the heart in a jolt. Many times you feel burdened being in the relationship and especially with the person whom you considered to be your closest. Usually, people do not see each other’s weaknesses in the early days of love. But over time, when the thrill starts decreasing, the lovers start seeing each other’s weaknesses. If things are getting worse and you are thinking about a breakup… then stop. Do these 5 easy tests before the breakup, so that you do not take the wrong decision in a hurry.
Do they care about you?
If your partner cares about you and stands with you in every difficulty, then the decision to leave them is not right. Their concern is proof of how important you are to them. Worrying also means that they will never lose you. Therefore ignore their mistakes, explain to them their fault and try to carry on the relationship with a much stronger bond.
Big fight?
It is seen that the things that most loving couples fight and reach the turning point of a breakup. Such as – no time to talk or meet, stay online for a long time, do not answer while being online, remain busy on the phone, etc. Do not make hasty and angry decisions. Think about the whole situation with a calm mind, then decide.
Has the partner admitted a mistake?
Many times, the person makes an apology on realization after committing a mistake, (but you are still angry). In such a situation, if you decide to end the relationship, then it will be called immaturity. Therefore, it is very important to give a chance to the person (of forgiveness of mistake). Yes! One more thing! If the person is cheating on you repeatedly, then you can think of a breakup.
Is your partner loyal to you?
There is some rift in the relationship. But if your partner is loyal to you, never think about a breakup. A person is loyal to the person whom they consider most important in their life (or whom they don’t want to lose). In such a situation, the dispute can be resolved by telling them about the mistake and explaining it. You should leave the thought of a breakup for such a person.
Are you happy?
If you don’t feel happy at all after meeting your partner or you feel irritated and angry, then there is no point in carrying on the relationship. But still you should think about it once, will you be able to keep yourself happy without that partner? If you can dare to handle yourself after breaking up from that person, then your decision is absolutely correct.